In-Laws or Parents Visa

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> Prepare them well with your personal information...
> Don't overwhelm them, parents tend to get nervous.
> Avoid mentioning that they are coming here for Pregnancy or Delivery - as that is a like taking away job positions from people here in the USA - for e.g. Doula's, Birthing consultants, Baby-sitters...
> You can mention that Parents/in-laws are coming here to visit and see their Grand-children.
> Try to show that they are working or have some reason to return to India.

> Avoid getting upset over the issue, many-a-time the visa is denied. Stay calm, you and your husband/partner will surely be able to go through the moment.

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